Ukuba neminyaka engu-16 kuyingqopha-mlando enkulu ekuphileni. Ungase ungathathwa njengomuntu omdala osemthethweni okwamanje, kodwa usufinyelele iminyaka lapho uvunyelwe khona ukuthola ilayisense yokushayela (ezingxenyeni eziningi zezwe), futhi ungase uqale ngisho nomsebenzi wakho wokuqala. Ngakho-ke, izinsuku zokuzalwa ze-16 ngokuvamile ziyizaba zokugubha kancane okukhulu. Ngisho noma ungahleli iphathi ye-Sweet 16, abazali bakho noma umndeni wakho bangase babheke ukukupha okuthile okukhethekile okwengeziwe kulo nyaka - futhi ungase uzithole usuthengela omunye wabangane bakho isipho esidumile sosuku lokuzalwa lweminyaka eyi-16. Usuku olukhulu, futhi ngokuqinisekile asikwazi ukuziba ingcindezi yokuba nombono ophelele wesipho sosuku lokuzalwa lweminyaka eyi-16.
Kunjalo, ufuna ukunikeza (noma uthole) okuthile okukhumbulekayo nokunenjongo ukumaka umcimbi. Ngenhlanhla, silapha ukuze sisize. Siqhamuke nesipho sosuku lokuzalwa, noma ngabe ufuna ukugubha iqiniso lokuthi umngane wakho othandana naye usanda kuphumelela ukuhlolwa kwakhe kokushayela, noma ufuna ukumnika okuthile okungcono kunekhadi lesipho. Mhlawumbe bathanda kakhulu #BookTok futhi badinga ukufundwa kwabo okusha okulandelayo? Noma mhlawumbe abakwazi ukuthola okwanele kuyo yonke imikhiqizo ye-TikTok enegciwane ku-FYP yabo.
Ukuhlanganisa iminyaka engu-16 kuza nomsebenzi omningi, futhi ngokuvamile, inkululeko eyengeziwe - ikakhulukazi uma wena noma umngane wakho nisanda kuthola ilayisense yokushayela. I-alamu yomuntu siqu ye-Ariza ingelinye lamathuluzi okuphepha abaluleke kakhulu umuntu angaba nawo. Ikhipha inhlabamkhosi ephezulu kanye nokukhanya okuxhophayo lapho icushiwe, ukuze idale ukuphambukisa nokusiza othile ukuba abaleke esimweni esiyingozi. Ingasetshenziswa izikhathi eziningi futhi ingaxhunywa kalula ku-keychain.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Aug-12-2022
