Ngesikhathi iJaji uGeoff Rea ligweba u-Jason Trembath, uthe izitatimende ezithinta izisulu zihlukumeza inhliziyo.
Izitatimende, ezikhishelwe ku-Stuff, zivela kwabesifazane abayisithupha kwabangu-11 u-Trembath ababephumputha emigwaqweni yase-Hawke's Bay naseRotorua ngasekupheleni kuka-2017.
Omunye walaba besifazane uthe “isithombe sakhe engilandela futhi engishaya ngokungafanele ngimile ngingakwazi ukuzisiza futhi ngithukile siyohlala sishiya isibazi engqondweni yami,” kusho yena.
Uthe akasazizwa ephephile eyedwa futhi “ngeshwa abantu abafana noMnuz Trembath bayisikhumbuzo kwabesifazane abafana nami ukuthi kunabantu ababi laphaya”.
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Omunye wesifazane owayegijima ngesikhathi ehlaselwa, uthe “ukugijima akuseyona indlela yokuzilibazisa ekhululekile, ejabulisayo eyayivame ukuba yiyo” futhi kusukela ngesikhathi sokuhlasela wayefaka i-alamu yomuntu siqu lapho egijima yedwa.
“Ngizithola ngibheka ehlombe lami isikhathi esiningi ukuze ngiqinisekise ukuthi akekho ongilandelayo,” kusho yena.
Omunye, owayeneminyaka engu-17 ngaleso sikhathi, uthe lesi sigameko simthintele ukuzethemba futhi wayengasazizwa ephephile ukuzikhipha yedwa.
Wayegijima nomngane wakhe ngesikhathi u-Trembath eshaya futhi ethi "wayezonda ukucabanga ukuthi umenzi wobubi ubezama ukwenzani ukube omunye wethu ubeyedwa".
“Mina nanoma yimuphi umuntu sinalo lonke ilungelo lokuphepha emphakathini wethu, futhi sikwazi ukuyogijima noma ukwenza noma yimuphi omunye umsebenzi wokungcebeleka ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeke lezi zimo,” kusho yena.
“Ngaze ngaqala ukushayela ngiya noma ngibuya emsebenzini wami ngihlala ebangeni elingamamitha angu-200 kuphela njengoba ngangisaba nokuhamba. Bengike ngizingabaze, ngizibuza ngezimpahla engizigqokile ukuthi ngandlela thize kube yiphutha lami ukuthi enze lento ayenza kimina,” kusho yena.
“Ngazizwa nginamahloni ngokwenzekile futhi ngangingafuni ukukhuluma ngakho namuntu, ngisho izikhathi ezimbalwa lapho amaphoyisa engithinta ngangizizwa ngiphatheke kabi futhi ngiphatheke kabi,” kusho yena.
“Ngaphambi kokuthi kwenzeke lesi sigameko, bengijabulela ukuzihambela kodwa ngemuva kwalokho ngasaba, ikakhulukazi ebusuku,” kusho yena.
Usebuyelwe wukuzethemba manje usehamba yedwa. Uthe ufisa sengathi ngabe akazange abe novalo futhi abhekane noTrembath.
Owesifazane owayeneminyaka engu-27 ngesikhathi ehlaselwa uthe omunye omncane kungenzeka ukuthi uthole ukuthi lesi sigameko sinyantisa.
Wayedelela futhi lokho kwakungeke kumthinte, kodwa “anginakuphika nokho, ukuthi ingqondo yami iphakama kangakanani njalo uma ngigijima noma ngihamba ngedwa”.
UTrembath, 30, uvele eNkantolo yesiFunda yaseNapier ngoLwesihlanu wagwetshwa iminyaka emihlanu nezinyanga ezine ebhadla ejele.
UTrembath uvumile ukuthi wahlukumeza abesifazane abangu-11, kanye necala elilodwa lokuqopha izinto ezibukwayo nokusabalalisa indaba ngokubhala ekhasini le-Facebook leqembu laseTaradale Cricket Club.
Ijaji ngenyanga edlule yabakhulula uTrembath noJoshua Pauling, 30, ngamacala okudlwengula lona wesifazane, kodwa uPauling watholwa enecala lokuba yingxenye yokuqopha izithombe ezibukwayo.
Ummeli kaTrembath, uNicola Graham, uthe ukona kwakhe “cishe akuchazeki” futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kungenxa ye-methamphetamine kanye nemikhuba yokugembula.
IJaji u-Rea uthe zonke izisulu zikaTrembath zibe nemiphumela “emangazayo” futhi izitatimende zezisulu “zihlukumeza inhliziyo”, esho.
Ukona kwakhe abesifazane emigwaqweni kuletha ukwesaba okukhulu kumalungu amaningi omphakathi, ikakhulukazi abesifazane, kusho uJaji Rea.
Ubalule ukuthi naphezu kokuzisholo kwakhe ukuthi umlutha wotshwala, ukugembula nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ubengusomabhizinisi nomdlali wezemidlalo owenza kahle. Ukukusola kwezinye izinto “kwakubi” esho.
UTrembath ugwetshwe iminyaka emithathu nezinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ejele ngamacala okukhwabanisa kanye nonyaka nezinyanga eziyisikhombisa ngokuthatha nokusabalalisa isithombe.
UTrembath wayengumphathi jikelele wabasabalalisi bokudla be-Bidfoods ngaleso sikhathi, umdlali wekhilikithi ophezulu owayedlale ezingeni lokumela abanye futhi owayethembisene umshado ngaleso sikhathi.
Wayevame ukubona abesifazane esemotweni yakhe, bese eyipaka bese egijima - evela ngaphambili noma ngemuva kwabo - ebamba izinqe zabo noma izimbotshana zabo futhi ecindezela, abese ebaleka.
Ngezinye izikhathi wayeshaya abesifazane ababili ezindaweni ezihlukene emahoreni ambalwa bebodwa. Ngesinye isikhathi isisulu sakhe sasiphusha i-pram nezingane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isisulu sakhe sasinendodana yakhe encane.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jun-24-2019
